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Reinventing Yourself

The individuals who end up engaging me as a coach are generally highly ambitious, capable, and well-respected in their fields. They seek out coaching due less to a sense of failure or incapacity, but more due to their recognition that asking for help will not diminish them in any way.  I believe th...

Posted by Selena  / on July 03, 2012  / 2 Comments  / in Creativity, Leadership, Meaningful Fun, Outside Comfort Zone

It’s You I Want, Not Your Persona

When I arrived at college, I was tough. Not nearly as tough as Lisbeth Salander, but tough nonetheless.  Being in a vulnerable position economically, class-wise, racially, and sexually as a young person either withers one or makes one develop a hard exterior.  It’s easy to maintain that hard...

Posted by Selena  / on September 23, 2011  / 2 Comments  / in Long-term relationship, Love