Author Archives Selena

Don’t go to the store on an empty stomach

Just as one can be too easily tempted by junk food when hungry, it’s best to seek a (soul) mate when you feel confident, are happy with yourself, and aren’t under external or time pressures. There’s a good reason I say this, despite the wrinkled brows and sputtering I detect —...

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The problem with honor system and dating sites…

Before I get started, let me answer those of you who wanted to refer single men or women to me.  Thank you, first of all, for reading my post!  Tell your friend/colleague/family member to either email me or leave a comment below the postings.  Or, if they don’t feel like contact...

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It’s not that I’m nosy…

No — I probably pay too little attention to what other people talk about, and I certainly don’t stick my nose in if my attention isn’t wanted. It’s just that here and there, good friends and close family members have shared tales of frustration, woe, and willful misrepresenta...

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